----What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
The first.
----Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
I should prolly explain that I am rarely ever angry. It takes a long time to stir my ire. I have met only one person in my life in whom I did not find some redeeming enough quality for me to overlook his faults. There is this acquaintance of mine, and I cannot bear to be in the same room with him. I want to both throttle and fuck him, or perhaps fuck then throttle. It's awful.
----You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
I call my brother. I tell him I love him. I tell him how wonderful he is, his potential, his strengths, never give up on himself, never be afraid to make mistakes, to read more, to not mourn, and to ask the pastor's son what I wish for my funeral.
----You are at the doctor's office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
I do not tell a soul. I finalize a will and funeral arrangements. I write a book, write poetry, run, dance, sing, travel, live a little. Love a lot. Write letters to everyone that means something to me. Give my full quote book to my brother and tell him to take up the mantle.
----You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
I only trust those whom love.
----You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
Of course, then call in sick.
----Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
Irrelevant. See the previous question.
----Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
We're siblings. Get the fuck off.
----Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
No. It was her time, and she was ready. There is no need to prolong pain.
----Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
No.
----Does love = sex?
No.
----Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
It probably would not occur to me to do so.
----When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
I don't know. This week? He was a friend from home. We talked about the Fig Tree, Sylvia Plath's Fig Tree.
----What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
That I love him.
----What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
My family. I love them fiercely.
----Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
Indirectly, last week. A new friend.
----If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
No. I don't regret.
----Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
Cam.
----Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
If it was a situation that could be remedied with CPR and the person did not look like he or she had herpes or strange bubbling froth/liquid emerging from their lips.
----You are holding onto your grandmother's hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
I would ask my grandmother for her opinion. Also, if I can manage to hold both, why can't I fling the newborn behind me and save my grandma?
----Are you old fashioned?
What culture are you referring to?
----When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
All the time. This morning.
----Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
The first, given the option. I do not look for love, but I would rather live a colorful life, one with knowledge and passion and experience.
----If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
For more wishes.